Tuesday, 9 October 2012

food for thought...


hey hi dost..we hv always been discussing r happy n sad times..n today i m gng to share one of my childhood dream wid u..hope u read it wid full concentration n heart...its written in one tym go..so u wil plenty of mistakes..plz ignore dm..

"About 20 million children, about 4% of their population in India and higher than people living in Delhi, are orphan. Of them, parents of only 0.3% children have died and rest have been abandoned. The figure is result of a study done by SOS Children’s Village by analyzing data from
National Family Health Survey-3 for the year 2005-06 and the population estimation by the Census of India to find the dark spots for children below the age of 18 in India."
wen i ws lil young..probably in 7th-8th cls i always felt dat i shud do something for orphan children..eh! i really hate dat wrd!!wel, i always thought dat wen i vl grow up n hav money i vl adopt a child..though vl definately hav mine own too....i thought  if every grl who is in financialy gud condition adopts a child, it wil realy change d present scenario..as i grew up i realised its nt as simple as i hav taken it to b..so here i cum wid a new plan...PSEUDO-ADOPTION.

It is simple to understand. i dnt hav to take d child home..i dnt hav to giv  my property to him..bt dere is a lot i cn still do for him/her..Assume i pseudoadopt a child...i cn pay his school fees..so dat he gets gud education n nt jst d namesake..i cn take proper care of al his needs-food, clothing(remember al i m doing is jst for one child). vl take him out and make him visit certain places(nearby only as per convinience n interest..motive here is to spend tym wid him outside d orphanage) i will take care of him till d tym he grows into a responsible young boy who understands his situation n is ready to wrk 4 a bettr lyf..n he will always b my child..i vl visit him atleast twice a week..he wud cum running to me,hug me n dn take his gifts..he wil know wht is love..wht is care..he vl b a gud human n once in gud condition he himself wil do smthing 4 children lyk him..here pseudoadopting means acting as a parent n nt jst giving money once a month.. u hav to visit him regularly n u r responsible to look aftr al  his needs odr dan shelter n may b food..he is dependent on u nw for his development.. he is ur child bt u dnt own him..

if u paid attention i said pseudo adopting a child.. u may ask y only a child? y nt distributing d same amount of guds to all of d children? making al happy..well u r right..dis is wht is being done in today's tym..bt u think urself wen i take responsibility of a single child..i cn concentrate more on him..if dis concentratn is distributed it will do less gud in a long tym run...dey wont develop..it will b like "uth k muh me zeera"  it might make dm happy for sum tym bt will nt eliminate dis problem.. ,if some ppl adopt d child like dis..dose children vl really c a better 2mrw n we cn sleep well thinking dat yes i did smthng gud today..smthing dat makes me feel human..well in a year or so..we all will strt earning..out of dat 1000/- rupees a month shudnt b mch a deal to spend on these children..n well wen it cums to managing we r d ustads..dn y nt try dis?

jst wantd to knw wht is ur take on it? u think people will realise it n cum frward wid dis idea?
yeah one more thing..jst after a year or so of thinking of adopting a child(7th or 8th) bipasha basu n sum odr celebreties adopted a child..dey r al unmarried mostly..n i m nt asking ppl to adopt a child bt pseudo adopt him! let us make it a trend! a fashion! where all young dynamic ppl(ppl wid brains to realise this issue) cn confidently n elevate this idea!!!

true commments plz..difficulties n questions vl also b ackknowledged!

5 comments:

  1. Hello...nyc to c sm hulchul bak here...
    First of all i am glad that u brought this kinda issue here...nd hats off fr ur thought...:D :D
    I highly appreciate ur idea.
    Although the actual problems that might creep in the execution of such an idea can be determined only once it is executed, but i wud lyk to mention some of the drawbacks or i wud say difficulties that may arise...Firstly, this typ of adoption may(its a possibility nt a certainty) give rise to a feeling of jealousy or hatred in the child u adopt for ur own children,they may think ur children to be a reason fr the way they are being treated. Also given they are small,young kids u cant expct such maturity level frm kids that they cud undrstand the complexities of such a relation .. Secondly, for the success of pseudo-adoption,it has to be a mass movement, or else it wud add up to the agonies of children who are nt being pseudo-adopted, wen they see ppl visiting nd taking care of other children in the orphanage(this one is a certainty). I also think that this might be one of the reason why celebs help an orphanage or organisations like these as a whole instead of going by what you are suggesting.

    But again i wud say nyc thot white shadow!! :))
    Although my priority still lies in serving the interest of domestic animals...:)

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  2. thanks for ur appreciation...well dat indifferent behaviour of ur children can b well managed..children hav a soft heart which cn b easily moulded..i vl take my children too wid me to visit d deprived children..dey cn bcum good friends n may even giv their toys to dm..(dey will develop a feeling of giving) children learn wht u teach dm...yess, mass adoption is wht i ws talking abt! wht problems do u think will it face..how to spread this rational thinking..it has to b done nw..once i m placed, i m seriously gng to do smthing for it..bt dnt knw frm where to start..hw to turn dis thought into a movement?
    -white shadow

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  3. I dnt actually think its that easy to manage children...Their sft heart is a +ve but can very well turn out into a big -ve too.. u myt also end up developing an ignorance for ur children fr the sake of those adopted or vice versa...neways that depends a little on luck nd ur managing n parental habits...
    For making it public u can always share your ideas with an NGO...search the net for NGOs working fr child welfare...nd contact them...they are always open for such ideas nd initiatives.

    BUT.....Do this only once u are qualified enuf nd in a position to take steps for the cause, AND ONLY ONCE U HAVE FULFILLED THE DREAMS OF UR PARENTS...
    Good luck...

    PS: bat to aise kar rae jaise bas yahi bat karte hon...;):P

    -Anonymous

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  4. chalo bat kuch samajh ati dikh rahi hai...:P

    -Anonymous

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